Just a little chit chat of break up do and don't do

Well, this happen to me a few days ago, and I learn something from this. Actually I'm curious what did she told her friend about me until her friend kinda judging me. And told about hurting, Well hello. It's works both side. Both of us were hurt. So after a break up and you need to let the steam off and move forward, just do and don't do this thing later:


So remember this few tips of letting go:

• If you guys have mutual friends that's OK. Don't cut them off it's not their fault it didn't work out. And most of all, it's okay but try not to tell something that didn't happen. 
• Go to a concert. Let loose and get some good pictures in, while you're at it hang it up on the wall when you get home. It'll remind you what a great time you had without that person. 
• Find new interests or try something you finally wanted to try after a long time. 
• Be with family and friends every so often. 
• Take a road trip, whether its 25 miles (40 km) or 100 miles (160 km) getting as far as possible from the drama will make it seem like you're on the other side of the world. 

Which are the don't do!

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• Don't stalk them and send them hate mail, it's only gonna prove their point on why they left you in the first place. 
• Don't isolate yourself from the the world. Your world should not revolve around them. Get out, do somethings. 
• Don't make people pity you. If they feel sorry for you and want to help willingly fine, but don't pull the whole "woe as me" act or else you will push even more people away. 
• Don't blow your situation out of proportion. Yes, they did hurt you, but you have to understand millions of people have the same problem, you're nothing special. 
• Don't hurt yourself in anyway. As much as this person is/was important to you they are not worth your physical pain. If you have urges talk to a doctor or a close friend/relative so they can help you. 
• If you have thoughts of suicide again consult a doctor or close friend/family member ASAP. 
• Don't set out to make them jealous. It's normal to think that way, but don't go through with it. It won't end well from anyone and its definitely not being the bigger person. 
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  Don't cling to people. People shouldn't mind hanging out with you, but don't suggest being with them every day and every hour. People have lives too.